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How does one succeed in life?

14.06.2025 08:59

How does one succeed in life?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

I am 13 and I am planning to run away. What should I do to succeed?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

What disgusts you?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

What are some disadvantages of living in rural areas? What are the advantages?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

What I need from you?

Why are breasts attractive?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Making more friends is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

What do you think will be the biggest factor in determining whether Daniel Penny was justified in believing that Jordan Neely had posed a deadly threat in the manslaughter trial?

That's it for today.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Why is the Middle East prone to terrorism?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

When writing a novel, how can a character be developed well, but QUICKLY?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

When a dog smells another dog’s poo or wee, do they then remember that scent for when they smell it again, or even further know which dog they are smelling if they know the dog?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Ask yourself:

Does not procrastinate.

What causes you to be tired all the time and major headaches?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

What factors contributed to The Beatles' bitterness?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

My dog is 2 weeks old. He's not eating, moving and always sleeping and I can't take him to a vet. What should I do?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.

If I get served by someone else's papers, am I legally required to inform the person that they got served, or the court that they served the wrong person?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Are the seasons in Ireland different from those in Scotland, England, and Wales? Or are they just milder versions of each other?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.